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Military to Extend Some Benefits to Gay Partners

Military to Extend Some Benefits to Gay Partners


Leon Panetta's last week as Defense secretary will see the extension of some partner benefits to gay military personnel.


As one of his final acts as secretary of Defense, Leon Panetta is expected to establish more equal benefit rights for gay and lesbian military couples and their families.

According to Outserve-SLDN, Panetta will make the announcement this week, before officially leaving office. The organization has been lobbying the Pentagon and federal government to extend benefits as simple as housing and military ID access to same-sex partners of military personnel since "don't ask, don't tell" was repealed officially in 2011.

The Washington Post reports that Pentagon officials are trying to determine which benefits can be extended to same-sex couples without violating the so-called Defense of Marriage Act, which bars the federal government from recognizing same-sex relgationships. An estimated 100 benefits may be extended to partners, spouses, and families. Currently, same-sex partners and spouses are granted minimal rights.

According to the Human Rights Campaign, some of the regulatory changes that Panetta could make include housing, military identification cards, access to commissaries and exchanges, personnel assignments, legal services, and privilege to refuse to testify against spouses.

"Secretary Panetta established a strong civil rights record long before taking office at the Pentagon, so his unwillingness to extend support and recognition to gay and lesbian service members and their families where it is clearly within his authority to do so has baffled many of us," said Outserve-SLDN executive director Allyson Robinson. "We are hopeful that he will not take half-measures here; for him to grant anything less than the full extent of benefits available under current law would be an anticlimactic end to an otherwise exemplary record on civil rights."

Robinson also praised Sen. Chuck Hagel, who is expected to be confirmed as Panetta's replacement, for assuring that he would uphold support for LGBT military families to the extent of the current law.

"Considering DADT was repealed well over a year ago, our families have waited far too long for the Defense Department to extend benefits to same-sex military spouses," said Stephen Peters, president of the American Military Partner Association. "No military family should suffer because of outdated regulations. For the sake of our families, we hope for substantive action and look forward to hearing from Secretary Panetta on exactly what benefits will be extended."

Rep. Adam Schiff and 25 other members of Congress urged Panetta to allow same-sex spouses certain benefits, such as military identification cards and access to Morale, Welfare, and Recreation (MWR) programs, and to allow access to family programs like deployment support, marriage and family counseling, relocation assistance, and financial management.

"We need to make sure that all military families -- including those with same sex partners serving at home or abroad - have access to the very best care, facilities and services possible," Schiff said in a statement Tuesday.

Read the full letter from the 26 representatives to Secretary Panetta on the next page...

Dear Secretary Panetta,

As you prepare to leave the Department of Defense, please accept our gratitude for your years of service to the Nation, including your many years as a member of the House of Representatives.

During your tenure, the American military has taken the historic step of stopping discrimination against gay and lesbian service members by ending the policy of Don't Ask, Don't Tell (DADT), which allowed gays, lesbians and bisexuals to serve in the military, provided they did not reveal their sexual orientation. This change has not only made our military a truer reflection of the country it protects, but it has also occurred without any of the disruption that critics had predicted. Much of that is due to your leadership and the senior leadership of the Armed Services.

However, as a recent article in the New York Times illustrates, the end of DADT has not meant the end of unequal treatment of same sex spouses of U.S. service members, who are denied a wide range of services and benefits - from health insurance to pre-deployment counseling, to access to base commissaries. As long as they remain in place, these restrictions have the effect of perpetuating discrimination against same sex spouses and their families.

We understand that most of the benefits available to veterans, service members and their families are granted directly by Congress. Well over a hundred of these statutory benefits are contingent on marital status. These benefits will remain unavailable to legally married same sex couples unless the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is repealed or declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Court this year or individual statutes are modified by Congress. In the meantime, there are several executive actions that you can take to ease the burden and increase the inclusiveness of all of our service members and their families.

We strongly urge you to issue same sex spouses military identification cards and registration in the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS). This is the easiest and simplest step to include same sex partners as part of the Department of Defense family.

We urge you to allow same sex partners access to Morale, Welfare, and Recreation (MWR) programs. Current regulations leave open to Installation Commanders the possibility of opening up limited access to certain MWR programs to guests and the general public. These exceptions would be applied regardless of sexual orientation or individual situations; in other words, a same sex spouse could receive guest privileges, just as the girlfriend or boyfriend of a straight service member receives at present, and would likely be treated as any non-dependent member of the public.

We also urge you to allow same sex partners access to family programs. The Department uses a flexible definition of "family" for the purpose of implementing Family Centers and programming, but leaves it up to the individual Service Secretaries to determine eligibility. Thus, each branch of the service (and each installation commander) determines the extent to which same sex spouses and partners have access to these programs, which include deployment support, marriage and family counseling, relocation assistance and financial management.

Department of Defense current policy is treating service members, their same sex spouses and families as second class citizens. As President Obama stated during his inaugural speech, "Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law, for if we are truly created equal, then surely the love we commit to one another must be equal, as well."

We strongly urge you take immediate action to rectify the inequality of benefits available to families of gay or lesbian service members.


Adam Schiff

Co-signers: Jackie Speier, Gwen Moore, Barbara Lee, Jerrold Nadler, Alan Lowenthal, Julia Brownley, Sam Farr, Gerry Connolly, Jim Moran, Mike Honda, Rick Larsen, Tim Bishop, Tulsi Gabbard, Raul Grijalva, Judy Chu, Chellie Pingree, Carolyn Maloney, Michael E. Capuano, Dina Titus, Beto O'Rourke, Steve Israel, Carol Shea-Porter, Jared Polis, Jared Huffman

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