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Another Child Suicide Blamed on Antigay Bullying



Family members of an 11-year-old boy who committed suicide in DeKalb County, Ga., on Thursday afternoon say that relentless bullying is to blame for their son's death, according to the Atlanta-Journal Constitution .

Jaheem Herrera, a fifth-grader at Dunaire Elementary School in the Atlanta area, hanged himself in his room after enduring extreme daily bullying that included antigay taunts. His 10-year-old sister discovered his body.

Herrera's mother and stepfather say they were aware of the consistent bullying, although their son tried to hide the extent of it. His mother, Masika Bermudez, complained to the school, reports WSB-TV , and she talked with his best friend about the situation.

"He said, 'Yes, ma'am. He told me that he's tired of everybody always messing with him in school. He is tired of telling the teachers and the staff, and they never do anything about the problems. So the only way out is by killing himself,'" Bermudez told WSB-TV.

Jaheem was an excellent student who moved with his family to the Atlanta area last year from St. Croix in the U.S. Virgin Islands, said stepfather Norman Keene.

The suicide of Jaheem follows the death earlier this month of 11-year-old Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover, a sixth-grader in Springfield, Mass., who hanged himself after reportedly enduring relentless antigay bullying.

In March, the parents of Eric Mohat -- a Mentor, Ohio, 17-year-old who shot and killed himself in 2007 following what his parents characterize as months of merciless antigay harassment -- filed a lawsuit against Mentor High School with the U.S. district court in the northern Ohio district; they're not seeking compensation for themselves, but rather an admission that Eric's death was a "bullycide," and they're asking that the school put in place an anti-bullying program to prevent future such tragedies.

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  • Name: Cindy Sickerman
    Date posted: 5/20/2009 10:41:00 PM
    Hometown: Grayson,GA

    Comment:

    Yes, I agree, we should be teaching that suicide in never an option..however what about the bully.. how much should we tolerate,. what should our children have to endure before it is enough.. is suicide the final answer..can we NOT protect our children before it gets that far..is this not emotional abuse??? If a parent treated their child in this manner we would be outraged..why is it OK because the abuser is underage???

  • Name: realist
    Date posted: 5/7/2009 4:38:00 PM
    Hometown: AL

    Comment:

    I'll have to admit, the whole situation breaks my heart too. But charging them with a federal crimes is just too ridiculous. First of all, people don't have civil rights in their sexual orientation. And second, do little boys of this age even know that they like girls yet? And third, taunting has never been enough to excuse killing anybody, including yourself. Yes, there should be more education on being kind or standing up for people that are being bullied. But keep in mind, the younger kids followed the example of others, so should we expose them even more? Next thing you know, we'll have a whole generation of "suicidal" kids that threaten everytime they are upset. We should be teaching them that suicide is never an option, that they are loved no matter what, and we should instill confidence in them so that do not feel this hopeless.

  • Name: Isis Cummings
    Date posted: 4/26/2009 8:09:00 PM
    Hometown: Macon

    Comment:

    I nkow how ift feels to get bullied. so i can't say you shouldn't listen to them, because i know that you wil. Just make sure that you have at least three people to talk to so that you don't follow down the same path as him. And i know that itt is easy to give up but you can't. and to his family i apologize for your lose you had a handsome son. this is all coming from a thirteen year old well i just turned thriteen and I'm a grade ahead of myself so i get picked on for being younger and smart

  • Name: Alaysia
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 10:35:00 PM
    Hometown: Bridgeport, CT

    Comment:

    The kids shouldnt listen to this so what if people call you gay. you know what you are and .why should you listen to what people got to say.Stand up for your-self my mom tells my brother.People talk about you all the time,in life. Those children woh bulley prob has ADDH.maybe the bulleys have thing on there mind and take the frustration on them. parents you need to sit down and talk with your kids.I might be 11 years old but i know alot about this sometimes i wanted to kil myself,but i realized what i am,and who i am.THANK YOU

  • Name: paditur
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 10:14:00 PM
    Hometown: FL

    Comment:

    This whole situation is just breaking my heart into a million pieces. I was discussing this with friends at dinner and I started thinking what if there is a way that victims of this abuse can charge their tormentor and/or the schools with 'Violation of Civil Rights'? Maybe then bullies will think twice about it if they know that they can be charged with a Federal Crime and that their parents can also be held liable and maybe even the schools? If the schools can have this hanging over their heads,perhaps then they will be more responsive.

  • Name: Patti
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 2:11:00 PM
    Hometown: Greenwich CT

    Comment:

    I'm so sorry to the family that they had to endure losing a child. May god bless you and your family. My prayers and condolences to the family

  • Name: Richard Halting
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 3:40:00 AM
    Hometown: Paris, France

    Comment:

    Hanging himself in his bedroom closet...what a tragedy! Let us be clear: it was HOMOPHOBIA and nothing else that killed this child. The boy even mentioned the GAY comments OVER AND OVER again to his mother. Kids can be cruel and heartless in a way adults seem to forget. The bullies that were the catalyst for this will not care and less so their pathetic parents. There is a deep seeded hate, rage and intolerance building in the US that has no precedent and seems to magnify with each generation. I blame this squarely on the rise of Christian fundamentalism (which exactly like Islamic fundamentalism) imposes its controlling doctrine on the individual (that is, any thing OTHER than a middle-aged straight male). It is CONTROL and nothing else. My heart goes out to his family and especially his mother. May he rest in peace. May future young victims find the strength to rise above the mediocrity at all cost to find their true worth when all others have fallen to the wayside.

  • Name: mom who cares
    Date posted: 4/23/2009 11:38:00 PM
    Hometown: atlanta ga

    Comment:

    I feel so sorry for these kids and their familes. Why didn't these teachers do anything? This is such a shame. What these innocent kids had to go through.. I think these parents should sue the school officials for letting these things go on. And the parents should also sue the other kids for bullying their kids. I'd like to know what these kids feel like knowing their all responsible for these kids deaths.. What will god think of them doing this to these kids? God bless these kids and their familes.

  • Name: Diaz
    Date posted: 4/23/2009 11:23:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    While it maybe true that the kids who bullied didn't bully because they are Christians, Muslims etc., the fact remains that religion does influence our everyday lives. When religious people or politicians make anti gay comments, they sanction violence and hatred towards gays. The kids are hearing what their parents are saying, and the parents, what their pastors are saying! Its a vicious cycle! On another note, and talking specifically about religious people, watch the pope---the mass murderer of people---who condemns the use of condoms that will prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS. Millions of people, particularly in Africa, have died of this disease, but for the pope its fine that they die, as long as Christianity can survive. Christianity feeds off poor people for its sustenance! But if there are no people eventually....

  • Name: Jo
    Date posted: 4/23/2009 7:07:00 AM
    Hometown: Atlanta

    Comment:

    Mike, your comment that all religious groups make sure that they pass on their disapproval of a gay orientation is absolutely terrible. I am a Christian. I Ido not judge my gay friends,I love them. To me, God only creates perfection. This is not about religion. There are two issues here - a child committed suicide because he saw no other recourse (mind boggling), and there are children that feel so insecure and feel such self-hatred that they taunt others repeatedly for being different. When kids call others "gay" today it is because the kid seems "different" - they don't play sports well or they study hard, they don't wear the "right" clothing, they're not aggressive, etc; Heather from Washington hit this right on. Please, stop tearing apart religion and forcing people into these boxes. Whether he was gay or not, what are we all prepared to do?

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