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"Family Guy" has fun with AIDS

Fox TV’s irreverent animated series aired an episode this summer that showcases a comic musical number called “You Have AIDS.” Overburdened AIDS service organizations are not amused.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted August 22, 2005

The Fox TV network and its animated comedy series Family Guy apparently think AIDS is a laughing matter.

AIDS groups are leveling harsh criticism against the network after it aired and then reran an episode of the show that includes a lengthy song-and-dance joke about a sick man who is diagnosed with AIDS.

The episode--titled “The Cleveland-Loretta Quagmire”--aired on June 12 and was rerun on August 14.

In the show, the program’s main character, Peter Griffin, offers to tell a friend that his wife is cheating on him because of his self-proclaimed gifted way of breaking bad news to people. As an example of this alleged skill, the program shows a flashback as to how Peter told a gaunt man lying in a hospital bed of his AIDS diagnosis. The man is also depicted as young and sporting a goatee, possibly subtly suggesting that he is gay.

Peter is shown as part of a barbershop quartet that dances around the ill man’s hospital room, singing “You got the AIDS” and making it clear that the man is not just HIV-positive but has developed “full-blown AIDS.” The shocking song-and-dance number continues to speculate about how the man became infected: “when you stuck that filthy needle in here,” sung as the quartet points at the man’s arm, or through unprotected sex.

The full lyrics of the song are as follows:

You have AIDS.
Yes, you have AIDS.
I hate to tell you, boy, you have AIDS.
You got the AIDS.
You may have caught it when you stuck that filthy needle in here.
Or maybe all that unprotected sex which we hear.
It isn’t clear, but what we’re certain of is that you have AIDS.
Yes, you have AIDS.
Not HIV, but full-blown AIDS.
Be sure that you see that this is not HIV, but full blown AIDS.
Not HIV, but full-blown AIDS.
I’m sorry, I wish it was something less serious, but it’s AIDS.
You’ve got the AIDS.

The episode was written by Family Guy writers Patrick Henry and Mike Henry, and directed by James Purdum.

Fox officials defended airing and rerunning the episode, saying Family Guy intends to push the boundaries of good taste through its brand of insult-laden humor and that the show has targeted many demographic groups, not just HIV-positive people.

“Over the years, Family Guy has skewered virtually every ethnic, religious, and social group,” says Fox spokesman Steven Melnick. “The audience that tunes into this series is well-aware of what to expect from the show--a subversive and sometimes shocking comedic view that occasionally skirts the borders of appropriateness. This scene is not a joke about HIV but rather Peter’s ignorance and inability to convey bad news. Given the nature of this series as well as the well-established cluelessness of this particular character, the scene--while certainly abrasive--is not beyond the expectation of the Family Guy audience.”

But AIDS groups aren’t amused. And they’re not buying Fox’s defense of the show, saying that joking about a disease that affects more than 40 million people worldwide, most of whom will die of the ailment, is reprehensible and serves only to worsen AIDS-related stigma.

“A barbershop quartet singing blithely about AIDS is about as funny as a song about breast cancer or leukemia, especially to the people living with the disease,” says AIDS Project Los Angeles executive director Craig E. Thompson. “It is inexcusable for Fox to air a program that stigmatizes AIDS and less than subtly reinforces homophobia. It should be socially unacceptable to see this kind of garbage passing for entertainment in 2005.”

David Munar, associate director of the AIDS Foundation of Chicago, says that while Family Guy may have been attempting to use dark humor to show the inappropriateness of delivering bad news through a song-and-dance number, that message might have been lost due to the subject matter of the song. “The risk, of course, is that some viewers might not get the joke and believe that AIDS has become a casual, laughing matter,” he says.

Both the AIDS Institute, based in Washington, D.C., and Philadelphia’s ActionAIDS believe Fox and Family Guy officials owe HIV-positive people--and all those working in the AIDS arena--an apology for suggesting that becoming infected with HIV or developing AIDS is funny.

“The portrayal of HIV/AIDS on Family Guy was irresponsible,” says AIDS Institute executive director Gene Copello. “There is nothing comical about a person lying in a hospital bed dying of AIDS or any other disease. Fox owes people living with HIV/AIDS and their families an immediate apology.”

Kevin Burns, executive director of ActionAIDS, says, “It is disturbing that Fox television would take such a cavalier approach to the subject of HIV/AIDS and the difficult task of informing someone of an AIDS diagnosis. Fox owes the community an apology. In addition, they should consider the many opportunities they have to support people living with HIV/AIDS and to educate the larger community about HIV/AIDS treatment, care, and prevention.”

Fox officials did not respond to requests for additional comments.

Reader Comments

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  • Name: Richard
    Date posted: 2009-05-11 7:06 PM
    Hometown: Leeds, UK

    Comment:

    Bob Adams, erm how can I put this without offending idiotic journalists? Here goes.... "It's a cartoon, dude"! Oh now I've done it. I've offended everyone called Bob because I hinted that one of them could be an idiot.


  • Name: nevercomingback
    Date posted: 2009-05-08 7:33 AM
    Hometown: australia

    Comment:

    As a 26 year with AID's, I can tell you that I found this hilarious. It was great to see people not treating this subject all touchy and scared. The hardest thing about having AID's is that everyone treats it so seriously. Laughter is the best medicine, and it doesn't hurt anyone but those who choose to be hurt by it. Also, shut up about that 'less than subtly reinforces homophobia' shit. It never occurred to me that the man in the scene could be homosexual until I read your article. You're the one who took the goatee and claimed that it implied homosexuality. Bob Adams, you are an idiot.


  • Name: Simpson, King of the Hill, and South Park rule
    Date posted: 2009-05-05 8:23 PM
    Hometown: Good TV USA

    Comment:

    The only reason AIDS groups are offended with the shit know as the AIDS song is because Family Guy can't make anything funny. The show tries way too hard, it beats the dead horse of jokes way too much, and the only way they can even seem funny is by farting.


  • Name: Me!
    Date posted: 2009-04-28 4:01 PM
    Hometown: My Soapbox.

    Comment:

    -_-' Nobody understands how this song proceeds to warn about AIDS. It says about how you get it through unprotected sex, or through needles. All anyone's worried about is the AIDS sufferers being offended. Nobody is thinking how this song, and very jolly too, ascertains to educate the viewing audience. Maybe one day, there's an 18 year old guy, who is about to have unprotected sex, and when he remembers this episode, he might put a condom on... and that may well save his life, and a life that may have needlessly been aborted if the girl got pregnant. So stop whinging, because sufferers of AIDS will probably be happy to see that their disease is being made more aware too, and not only that... it's a great song, very humourous! :)


  • Name: burger
    Date posted: 2009-04-24 4:51 PM
    Hometown: burgertown

    Comment:

    a lick a lot of aids victoms in the middle of aids in order to give and to get aids


  • Name: bo
    Date posted: 2009-04-24 4:48 PM
    Hometown: daingerfield

    Comment:

    you have aids not hiv but full blown aids


  • Name: M
    Date posted: 2009-03-27 12:17 AM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    I wonder if that episode would have been just as funny if it was a mother holding a newborn with aids in that bed instead of the guy with the goatee. I would have had a hoot laughing at a mother and a baby dieing of AIDS.


  • Name: Aniruddha
    Date posted: 2009-03-18 11:18 PM
    Hometown: Nagpur

    Comment:

    Hello, I'll say.This is very ridiculous showing such kind of program on television, it may like torturing to the affected one. I think government must have to take strict action against such type program supporter and sponsors.


  • Name: Dyland George
    Date posted: 2009-03-18 9:41 PM
    Hometown: San Fernando, Trinidad W.I.

    Comment:

    These idiots have only one episode of family guy? because they have a problem with the aids joke but not a problem with Brian's racism or Stewie's homosexuality or even Peter's mental disability the show makes money because it touches the side of life that we as people are afraid to encounter so what if Peter joked about aids, Stewie wears dresses or Brian barks at black people or even that Peter once tried to shoot his immigrant workers(b.t.w. very funny segment), its things like that that make us want to see the show more. I as a person actually congratulate the producers for laughing and flaunting A.I.D.S. relations or depicting gays as monsterous creatures or even making a retard their mayor because as young african male I appreciate being shown racial slurs because you know people are thinking it but someone finally said it.


  • Name: Kail
    Date posted: 2009-03-09 2:53 AM
    Hometown: Aidstown, NJ

    Comment:

    I'm pretty disturbed that this article needs to resort to bull to attack a show when the fact that the episode FEATURED AN OBVIOUSLY OFFENSIVE SONG ABOUT AIDS. You really DON'T need to make up stuff about this episode to get people turned off to family guy, so the man infected with aids is young and has a goatee, that means he's gay?! I'm young and I have a goatee, doesn't mean I'm gay does it? Honestly, you people are disgusting. Don't make up stuff about a show when you should already have enough to complain about.


  • Name: Daniel Briant
    Date posted: 2009-03-03 5:14 AM
    Hometown: Dubbo

    Comment:

    "The man is also depicted as young and sporting a goatee, possibly subtly suggesting that he is gay." Who is more ignorant peter griffin for sending in a quartet to break the bad news about aids or the writers of this article for suggesting that every man that has a goatee is gay? HOW IGNORANT!!!! LOL


  • Name: Joannie
    Date posted: 2008-12-02 10:35 AM
    Hometown: Montreal, Quebec

    Comment:

    You people are pushing it a bit, saying that AIDS is funny, it really isn't, but these Family Guy righter are freaking hilarious!!!!! You know, they are making fun of pedophiles, rappers, transsexuals, different races ect ect got to have an open mind and learn about laughing @ life instead of crying in your little corner!!!


  • Name: Curdo
    Date posted: 2008-11-14 12:05 AM
    Hometown: Philadelphia

    Comment:

    "maybe all that unprotected sex put you here" is the line in the song.


  • Name: HIV Positive
    Date posted: 2008-10-15 12:49 AM
    Hometown: Las Vegas

    Comment:

    As an HIV positive person I absolutely laughed my ass off when I saw this episode. I know that HIV/AIDS is not a laughing matter. But after ooing and ahhing it's about time I had a chuckle about living with it. I've been hospitalized with full blown AIDS and thanks to this it's made me realize that I can continue to live my life and not burden myself so badly and have HIV control my life. I give this song three thumbs up!!!!!!!!!!!!


  • Name: Tyler
    Date posted: 2008-09-18 7:40 PM
    Hometown: Syracuse

    Comment:

    I would have laughed a bit if it had been funny, but it really wasn't. Not because of the gravity of the subject matter, but because the lyrics weren't clever, and the joke went on too long, trapsing its feet over and over in a serious matter with no respect. If you're going to touch something like AIDS or anything that can and does ruin someone's life, at least wink at us; simply parading your 'edginess' does not necessarily inspire laughter.


  • Name: Nobody
    Date posted: 2008-08-22 12:42 AM
    Hometown: Miami

    Comment:

    You have AIDS. Yes, you have AIDS. I hate to tell you, boy, you have AIDS. You got the AIDS. You may have caught it when you stuck that filthy needle in here. Or maybe all that unprotected sex which we hear. It isn’t clear, but what we’re certain of is that you have AIDS. Yes, you have AIDS. Not HIV, but full-blown AIDS. Be sure that you see that this is not HIV, but full blown AIDS. Not HIV, but full-blown AIDS. I’m sorry, I wish it was something less serious, but it’s AIDS. You’ve got the AIDS. Ha come on its funny. Pull that stick out of your ass and laugh a little.


  • Name: drefiascoprodigy
    Date posted: 2008-08-12 9:13 PM
    Hometown: new kent

    Comment:

    hmmm...well i feel sorry for people with aids but if u obtained aids from "gay acts" then thats some funny shit lol


  • Name: lace123
    Date posted: 2008-08-12 5:53 PM
    Hometown: roy utah

    Comment:

    Straight men can have goatees....... your wasting your "quality" of life on something thats not going anywhere.. focus on something that can actually be productive. because guess what?????... :) .... :).. :) ..... :) .....:YoU hAvE AIDS!!:........


  • Name: JessiBlue
    Date posted: 2008-08-12 5:42 PM
    Hometown: UTAH

    Comment:

    Guess what? You have AID's! Honestly I am sure that gay and not just HIV positive but full blown AID's people need to laugh. You only got so long to live anyway so AID's people live it up and laugh at it.


  • Name: Sukkapunk
    Date posted: 2008-08-09 1:03 PM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    OHH your all just grumpy because you have AIDS.


  • Name: Mike
    Date posted: 2008-07-26 3:22 PM
    Hometown: Buffalo

    Comment:

    So what these groups are saying is... it's 100% OK for a black comic to call white people crackers and other insults... etc... but Family Guy can't make jokes about AIDS and Gays because it's going to hurt their feelings? I don't know about the AIDS part, but I have many gay friends who find Family Guy jokes about gays HILARIOUS, and don't even get the slightest bit offended.


  • Name: Lin
    Date posted: 2008-07-20 8:32 PM
    Hometown: Orinda

    Comment:

    LMAO. "The man is also depicted as young and sporting a goatee, possibly subtly suggesting that he is gay." Uhh, yeah, sure. Every single person with a goatee is gay. OF COURSE. xDD God you people need to lighten up.


  • Name: X Dot
    Date posted: 2008-07-09 8:59 AM
    Hometown: Melbourne

    Comment:

    Thanks Sung. You speak the truth. It's rare to see such succinct and wise comments tacked onto a blog like this. I was inspired to take aim at the article's author, but it has all been said, and well i must add.


  • Name: GG Allin
    Date posted: 2008-07-01 8:50 PM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    Gay people get AIDS? I thought it was a needle thing. Oh well. I am off to see my lover Gaetan Dugas now. He is SOOOOO hot!


  • Name: Sung Dude
    Date posted: 2008-06-26 6:41 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    This article is really reaching to portray the young man as gay. If Mr. Adams had paid attention, he would have noticed that the doctor in the scene said "I don't know how to tell you this, Mr. Devanney..." Tom Devanney was (is?) a staff writer for Family Guy. It's in the credits. Another writer, Mark Hentemann, has also appeared on the show (as himself, that is, although he has voiced other characters). Aside from being utterly lazy research (thus reprehensible on a strictly professional level), claims supported this poorly only make gay media seem alarmist and confused. There was nothing to specifically imply that the young man was gay, and a strong case suggesting it was an inside joke; the in group in this case is people who can read and hold their hypotheses until they have all the facts. also, this is hilarious, and it's possible to laugh at it while recognizing the gravity of the situation (not to mention the difference between cartoons and real life).


  • Name: badingers
    Date posted: 2008-06-10 4:15 AM
    Hometown: brookfields

    Comment:

    gays and AIDS are funny. even without family guy.


  • Name: Armatiage
    Date posted: 2008-06-05 8:35 PM
    Hometown: Dunwich

    Comment:

    Tbh I think the AIDs groups have found an anthem :-p and the song off Team America to a lesser extent ;-)


  • Name: Erin
    Date posted: 2008-05-26 12:59 AM
    Hometown: Tampa

    Comment:

    Honestly, the whole point of the little bit was to laugh . To live and yet laugh I say. We have too much fear and seriousness in our society we tend to forget to laugh. I believe the direction that Family Guy was heading for was to laugh into the face of AIDS. Sure, it was funny and perhaps a bit cruel, but to come think of it , we all need to laugh and breathe.


  • Name: Francisco
    Date posted: 2008-05-14 10:03 AM
    Hometown: Neutral Zone

    Comment:

    Oh, BTW, "The man is also depicted as young and sporting a goatee, possibly subtly suggesting that he is gay." Because ALL gays sport goatees. SERIOUSLY!


  • Name: Mimi
    Date posted: 2008-05-13 8:50 PM
    Hometown: Toms River

    Comment:

    People really need to give it up. One cannot expect that the show is going to sensor its humor. Family guy pokes fun at every and someone is bound to be offended but that is COMEDY. If we were to sensor all offensive material, there would be no TV, no music, no radio, no computer, no books, nothing. Get over it and laugh a little.


  • Name: Eck
    Date posted: 2008-05-13 8:19 PM
    Hometown: Martinsville

    Comment:

    People should be perpetually somber and apologetic to groups, not only affected by HIV or AIDS, but to all diseased people as well, treated like a charity case is exactly what these people want. Why stop there? Because Family guy chooses not to discriminate against who they offend, it only makes sense that we start treating different races or gender like it's "No Laughing matter". Sure I may be a little biased because I like funny things (see: Commedy), and am a member of SPEBSQSA, but Fransisco has the right idea, they are still people who have a right to be happy just like everyone else.


  • Name: Francisco
    Date posted: 2008-05-13 7:35 PM
    Hometown: Neutral Zone

    Comment:

    I'm gay, I'm HIV positive, and I find this song incredibly hilarious. Being trated like a dying person sucks; when I get aids, I want someone to sing this song to me. IT'S NOT TREATING AIDS LIGHTLY; IT'S LIVING WITH HUMOUR. We need it, for real!


  • Name: Worthy Evans
    Date posted: 2008-05-09 11:14 AM
    Hometown: Columbia, SC

    Comment:

    I'll say. After watching that episode I went out and tried to get the AIDS myself. The barbershop quartet didn't show up like I had expected. I guess that I should never fall for gallows humor. And never laugh.


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