
CONTACTAbout UsCAREER OPPORTUNITIESADVERTISE WITH USPRIVACY POLICYPRIVACY PREFERENCESTERMS OF USELEGAL NOTICE
© 2025 Pride Publishing Inc.
All Rights reserved
All Rights reserved
By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Private Policy and Terms of Use.
Although some senators have called on President Obama to support marriage equality, Sen. John Kerry defended the president's right "to his own view, in his own time" in an op-ed this weekend.
"Marriage is deeply personal," Kerry wrote in The Boston Globe. "Our positions are based on unique
combinations of reason, belief, and experience, not polling and
politics. Everyone is entitled to his own view, in his own time,
including the president."
The Massachusetts senator argued that "the example of thousands of gay marriages in Massachusetts ... pushed many of us along in our own journeys." Kerry describes his former support for civil unions over marriage as "an exercise in legalese."
As many will remember, the Massachusetts senator was repeatedly criticized during his Democratic presidential campaign for taking nuanced positions. Or, for the I-was-for-it-before-I-was-against-it logic that was repeated over and over in attack ads. On marriage equality, though, Kerry says politicians should be allowed to change their minds.
"We cannot afford to be imprisoned by politics that say your views are not allowed to grow as you gain knowledge and experience," he writes in the Globe. "There's nothing wrong with acknowledging you've changed your mind when your views have evolved. Don't we pride ourselves on learning by living?"
"These seven years of marriage equality in Massachusetts might as well have been 30 years: they erased decades of myths," writes Kerry. "It's hard for a lot of young people to even understand the controversy. For them, including my daughters, the right of gay Americans to marry has never been a question."
Now, Kerry says, "It's not about a word -- it's about equality under the law." The civil unions he once supported are no longer good enough. "When we grant a right to some citizens but deny it to others, we create a second, unequal class," he writes.
Last month The Advocate reported that a group of senators, including Al Franken, Jeff Merkley and Kirsten Gillibrand, have called for the president to support marriage equality, saying the time has come.
lucasgrindley
From our Sponsors
Most Popular
31 Period Films of Lesbians and Bi Women in Love That Will Take You Back
December 09 2024 1:00 PM
18 of the most batsh*t things N.C. Republican governor candidate Mark Robinson has said
October 30 2024 11:06 AM
True
These 15 major companies caved to the far right and stopped DEI programs
January 24 2025 1:11 PM
True
Latest Stories
Notes from a gender clinician
March 21 2025 6:00 PM
Disney shareholders vote overwhelmingly to continue in Human Rights Campaign index
March 21 2025 5:44 PM
Fireworks in DC courtroom as judge hears DOJ request to undo block on trans military ban
March 21 2025 3:04 PM
True
Kentucky Gov. Andy Beshear vetoes anti-DEI bill
March 21 2025 1:50 PM
Federal judge will hear last-minute Trump admin request to undo block on trans military ban
March 21 2025 10:42 AM
WorldPride organizers urge global unity amid calls to boycott U.S. LGBTQ+ celebration
March 20 2025 6:35 PM
Behind the scenes at Dylan Mulvaney's Advocate cover shoot
March 20 2025 4:14 PM
Vivian Wilson, Elon Musk's trans daughter, slams 'cartoonishly evil' Trump team
March 20 2025 1:39 PM
Federal student loan restrictions will disproportionately impact LGBTQ+ adults
March 20 2025 11:54 AM
Decoding Trump's strange obsession with the Kennedys
March 20 2025 9:41 AM
Winter Party Festival 2025 brought dance revolution & sizzling queer heat to Miami
March 20 2025 9:00 AM
Trending stories
Recommended Stories for You
Lucas Grindley
Lucas Grindley is VP and Editorial Director for Here Media, which is parent company to The Advocate. His Twitter account is filled with politics, Philip Glass appreciation, and adorable photos of his twin toddler daughters.
Lucas Grindley is VP and Editorial Director for Here Media, which is parent company to The Advocate. His Twitter account is filled with politics, Philip Glass appreciation, and adorable photos of his twin toddler daughters.