Though lesbian
and gay New Yorkers were dealt a setback in the New York
Court of Appeals on Thursday, the fight for marriage
equality is far from over.
The court
delivered a disappointing 4-2 decision holding that
the New York State constitution is not violated by
denying same-sex couples access to civil marriage, a
decision that will join Bowers v. Hardwick in
the history books as a sad instance of a court ignoring
its obligation to uphold the rights of a minority--a
decision we can expect the court itself to regret.
The lead opinion,
written by Judge Robert Smith, relied on unsupported
arguments about the importance of marriage for heterosexual
couples and their children while disregarding the
importance of marriage to same-sex couples and the
thousands of children they raise in New York state. In an
ironic twist on an old stereotype, the opinion theorized
that it is rational to channel only heterosexuals into
marriage since they have "all too often casual
or temporary" relationships in which they conceive
children by "accident or
impulse"--children who then need the stability
of having their parents marry. According to the
opinion, this was in contrast to lesbian and gay
couples, who do not become parents by
"impulse" but rather through the careful
planning involved in adoption and assisted
reproduction methods. Their children thus can count on a
more stable family setting and are in less need of married
parents.
Judge Smith also
relied on "intuition and experience" for the
proposition that "a child benefits from having
before his or her eyes, every day, living models of
what both a man and a woman are like." Children whose
parents do not conform to this view of appropriate
"man" and "woman"
"living models," according to the opinion,
legitimately can be denied the protections that come
from giving their parents access to marriage. Even the
defendants in the case did not advance such an argument,
which, whatever a judge's
"intuition" may suggest, is contrary to what
the American Academy of Pediatrics and other leading
child-welfare experts have concluded on the subject.
The decision
should be viewed as out of step with the reality and dignity
of lesbian and gay families and the clear direction in which
our society is headed. In the words of the dissent by
chief judge Kaye, "future generations will look
back on today's decision as an unfortunate
misstep." Her stirring opinion, joined by judge
Ciparick, adopts exactly the legal analysis and
arguments that the lesbian and gay plaintiffs
advocated. If only it had been the majority opinion.
While this ruling
is a blow, we have much to make us feel hopeful and
motivated to continue our work for marriage equality here in
New York and elsewhere. We have seen tremendous
progress in this state in the past two and a half
years since we started the Hernandez v. Robles litigation
[one of the four cases the court ruled on jointly].
Though it will not happen overnight, we are now poised
as we never were before to win the right in the state
legislature for same-sex couples to marry.
Public opinion
has clearly shifted in our favor over the past several
years, with statewide polls now showing 53% of New Yorkers
supporting marriage equality and only 38% opposed. The
five committed couples who were plaintiffs in our case
have received a tremendous amount of favorable public
and media attention. They have been wonderful
spokespeople, along with many other lesbian and gay New
Yorkers who have been trained and energized to engage
others in the state. Key public officials, including
Attorney General Elliot Spitzer--front-runner to win
the governor's seat in November--and New York
City mayor Michael Bloomberg, have come out firmly in
support of marriage rights and have vowed to help see
marriage legislation passed in Albany. Major New York
labor union leaders, hundreds of clergy, and organizations
like the NAACP Legal Defense and Education Fund have
lined up in support of civil-marriage rights. Our
statewide LGBT lobbying and grassroots political
organization, the Empire State Pride Agenda, is leading the
way and working hard to win in the legislature the
right to marry. It has effective plans already
underway to make this happen. We will continue to work
with Pride Agenda and others in a statewide coalition to
take our fight to Albany.
A marriage
victory would have been wonderfully sweet, but we should
focus now on the unique opportunity in New York to use
the momentum that has built over the past years to
push for a victory in the legislature. It is well
within our reach. We can and will win marriage equality
through our democratically elected legislators. We
have come far along the road to full citizenship in
this state.