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The Not So Ugly Truth

As he takes on his second role as a gay man in fashion, Ugly Betty’s Michael Urie sets the record straight about his own life.


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Few actors get the chance to play two memorable gay fashionistas in the same lifetime. Even fewer get to play them in the same day. But that’s exactly what Michael Urie did last spring and summer, when he found himself dashing from the set of Ugly Betty, where he plays bootlicking fashion magazine assistant Marc St. James, to the stage of The Temperamentals, where he portrayed Rudi Gernreich, the iconoclastic designer who before folding himself firmly into the closet helped establish one of the first gay rights groups in U.S. history.

“I’m not fashionable,” Urie admits, hunched over a cup of coffee at a table in one of his favorite Manhattan brunch spots, just blocks away from his Hell’s Kitchen apartment. The 29-year-old Juilliard grad, who once had dreams of staying in his suburban hometown outside Dallas to teach high school drama, has basically become synonymous with his foppish Ugly Betty character. But on this rainy, chilly Sunday afternoon in December, Urie’s outfit—frumpy dark gray sweater, frayed cap, simple logo tee—is far from exceptional. There’s not even so much as a pattern in sight. Wilhelmina Slater would be mortified. “And here I am,” he continues, “playing two people in the fashion world, one of which has to hide the fact that he’s gay in order to succeed, the other of which is successful because he’s gay.”

It may at first seem too coincidental that Urie spent several months flip-flopping between such similar roles. But while some would say the situation smacks of typecasting, it was actually a matter of happenstance. Urie had been doing readings of The Temperamentals with its gay writer, Pulitzer finalist Jon Marans (Old Wicked Songs), well before he landed the prime-time role that put him on the map. When Marans resurfaced to recruit Urie for the showcase of the play in New York City’s Studio Theatre last April, Urie says he was hardly reluctant. “When I was deciding whether to do it, the biggest negative was that it was another gay character who works in fashion,” he remembers, “but I knew I would be doing something very different than what I do on Ugly Betty.”

Through its sold-out performances, critical buzz, and word of mouth, The Temperamentals extended its limited 2009 engagement for several weeks, finally closing at the end of August. In late February, however, Urie will return for the show’s third off-Broadway incarnation at New York’s New World Stages, the production again coinciding with shooting for Ugly Betty. Audiences who see this latest version will notice that while Urie’s depiction of Gernreich is at times caustic and comical, it’s a considerable cry from his reliably campy turn as Marc.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: John
    Date posted: 2/26/2010 2:40:38 PM
    Hometown: Merced

    Comment:

    It took me two readings (which means I had to sort and then match nouns and adjectives) of The Not So Ugly Truth by Jason Lamphier to grasp the message, because the text reads as contradictions. As the terminology - Straight, BI, Gay, & Queer - was used by Mike Urie, I grasped that the point he was attempting to convey is that relationships are far more than its sexual labels. Now I am ready to grasp that each relationship is unique, because each member owns his own diversity of behavors. Thus, the diversity of defintions for each sexual label exists, because of the diversity of behaviors that each member brings to the relationship.

  • Name: John
    Date posted: 1/19/2010 12:51:15 AM
    Hometown: Anywhere

    Comment:

    Stonewaller, I really do appreciate your thoughts and response. May I be further thought-provoking? I pretty much strive and learn to love the truth in all of life (WHATEVER it may be) above myself and to live within it; and this is what helped me to finally face it and come out of the closet to myself (whatever I am) and to a couple of others far more than anything else. The only thing I can ultimately accept and be at peace with is the truth, itself, not simply what I would be comfortable with, per se. This is beyond semantics--it is about true understanding--but I can neither afford to spend money on psychoanalysts nor am I ready to be out to the general public to find out. I also don't need affirmationists. My true affirmationist is the truth, alone. I hope I didn't overwhelm you.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 8:11:07 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    Chin I totally agree. Sandy As I have explained above, there is a difference between identity and activity. Mark I hate to disappoint you, but research by Gay social scientists shows that people's being "out" has no effect whatsoever on political results . Contrary to what some LGBT leaders may say, "coming out" is a personal matter, not a political one. Who says that anybody has a duty or obligation to come out in this or any other way. Does a Jew passing as a Gentile during the Holocaust have a duty to come out? What about a Black passing as a White during Apartheid? Does a transgender person have a duty to announce his or her biological origins? If you are so concerned about people committing suicide, maybe you should make the LGBT community a safer place for chronic or bipolar depressives to be. So far as Gay teen suicide is concerned, hotlines are most effective. I say this as Stonewall veteran who has worked with LGBT street youth as well as mentally disabled adults.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 7:50:24 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    mymayorsgay I am not sure that any of us can be said to be familiar with Urie's sexual history. Not that it would matter in any event. He has the right to self-identify any way he wishes. One may be "homosexual" in terms of activity, "bisexual" in terms of proclivity and "queer" in terms of identity. Raphael is correct in his reference to findings which began with the Kinsey report. There is a consenus among medical researchers, that less than 1% of the population is 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual. "Gay" is not a medical term, it is an identity term. Indeed, somebody who identifies exlusively as "Straight" may fall in love with or bed with somebody of the same gender as well as somebody who identifies exclusively as "Gay" may fall in love with or bed with somebody of the opposite gender. Medical classification is one thing; sexual or political identity quite another. Most people are more complicated than those who seek simple explanations for complex matters.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 7:35:24 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    Raphael You are 100% INcorrect. A veteran of Stonewall, I can tell you that historically LGBT shouted out that we were "Gay and Proud." LGBT political activist ever since, I can tell you that the "Gay and Proud, Say it Clear, Say It Loud" tradition, continues to this day. While an individual may indeed be Queer and proud, "Q&P" has never been a political expression -- then or now.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 7:25:01 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    John Historically, I have been more emotionally attracted to women and more physically attracted to men. Present at Stonewall, I have been active in political organizations and cultural communities which have been variously termed: 1) Gay; 2) Gay and Lesbian; 3) Bisexual and 4) Queer. I found that when I identified as Bi, men feared that I would leave them for a woman and women feared that I would leave them for a man. Much as many heterosexuals have claimed that those who "come out" as Gay or Lesbian are really either repressed heterosexuals or "going through a phase," many homosexuals have claimed that those who identify as Bisexual are really repressed homosexuals or going through a phase. Thus, I did go through what may have been regarded as phases: 1) identified as Gay; 2) as Bisexual; 3) Gay identified Bisexual; 4) Queer. In fact, any and all of these identities have been true at any and all times. I recommend choosing that with which you are most comfortable.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 7:10:06 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    Don/James Historically, medical have been terms such as: "homosexual" referring to men who have sex with men, desire to do so or might contemplate doing so; "lesbian" referring to women who have sex with women, etc.; "bisexual" referring to men or women who have sex with men and women, etc.; "transgender" referring to men or women who appear to be of one gender, but believe themselves to be trapped within the body of another. Historically, "Gay" has been an identity term reserved primarily or exclusively for Gay men. Some women who have sex with women prefer to identify as Lesbians while others prefer the term "Gay women." Bisexuals and transgenders may or may not also be welcome to define themselves as Gay, but most choose not to do so. "Queer" is a political term which encompasses all of the aforementioned sexual minorities as well as those who identify as intersex, questioning or curious. Self-identification has its limits.

  • Name: Stonewaller
    Date posted: 1/18/2010 6:40:24 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    Urie says that he does not have the sex appeal to play a Straight male lead. I beg to differ with him. I think he would be totally believable and attractive in a Straight role. However, he is correct in stating that for an actor "coming out" can be the death knell for his or career. Furthermore, neither he nor anybody else has a duty or an obligation to "come out." I say this as a veteran of Stonewall. Mark There is no evidence that an increase in the visibility of LGBT results in a decrease of suicidal ideation or action among teens. Keoniona You may identify anyway you wish, but engaging in sex with more than one gender does not a bisexual make.

  • Name: ram
    Date posted: 1/16/2010 6:49:31 AM
    Hometown: Downey

    Comment:

    I like this actor and I now want to see his show The Temperamentals.

  • Name: keoniana
    Date posted: 1/16/2010 12:00:18 AM
    Hometown: beaverton Oregon USA

    Comment:

    I am 80 years old and am completely gay. Earlier in my life I was forced into hetero marriages by the corporations I worked for. So I guess you could say that I was bi during that period as I have a 36 year old daughter and twin grandchildren aged four. None of this changes the fact that I was gay since high school. Just never flaunted it and still don't, Here in Portland Oregon there are many nice broad minded friends who care less who I sleep with and that is as it should be. At my age most times my bed is empty and I cannot complain. Believe me I have had my share of wild sessions

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