The Riot Grrrls and Sex
BY Sara Marcus
October 06 2010 2:20 PM ET
“Girl love” was one of the movement’s key catchphrases, updating the
lauded “sisterhood” of the ’60s and ’70s women’s liberation movement
into something more ambiguous. The sisterly bond is utterly
desexualized, almost defensively so, but “girl love” leaves things open
to interpretation: Is said love romantic or not? When you’re 16, do
you ever really know for sure?
Many riot grrrls considered themselves bi, at least in theory if not
in practice, which helped the movement sidestep the gay-straight
frictions that had riven feminist organizations in the 1970s and ’80s.
As Riot Grrrl chapters sprang up in cities and suburbs across the
country, each group developed its own unique composition and energy. In
Olympia, some lesbians at Evergreen State College considered the
Riot Grrrl crowd’s bi-with-a-boyfriend(-and-maybe-a-girlfriend-too) vibe
to be too straight for them. In New York, though, the weekly Riot Grrrl
meetings and regular concerts, art shows, and festivals acted as a
magnet for queer young women.
Although none of Riot Grrrl’s
original progenitors identified as lesbians, the movement had taken much
of its inspiration from the gay punk networks of the late ’80s and
early ’90s. And by 1996, when all the bands originally associated with
Riot Grrrl had broken up or were headed that way, the torch was passed
to a new wave of specifically queer musicians: all-lesbian supergroup
Team Dresch (who frequently toured with Bikini Kill in their early
years), power-poppers the Butchies, avant-metal duos the Haggard and the
Crucially, Riot Grrrl was always about resisting definition
and defying categorization. In their zines, songs, and artwork, the
girls insisted over and over on their right not to have everything
figured out. The early and mid ’90s saw a proliferation of “gay-straight
alliance” clubs at high schools; but in those organizations that named
their members as being either “gay” or “straight,” and in the movements
that posited explicit self-disclosure as a necessary basis for (and even
as synonymous with) political action, there was little space for a
teenage girl who was infuriated by homophobia but still in the process
of making sense of her own sexuality — a long, complex process for many
people, especially adolescents. Riot Grrrl’s declarations of
indeterminacy, its adherents’ refusal to be boiled down to one platform
or identity: This is one of the movement’s most important legacies.
Girls to the Front: The True Story of the Riot Grrrl Revolution, published by Harper Perennial, is out now.
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