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Homophobosphere
An environment created by antigay postings on Internet blogs that spreads hate, produces fear, and is still protected by free speech.
From The Advocate  February 26, 2008
 Homophobosphere

“Only a stereotypical feces-eating faggot would get this emotional over celebrity gossip,” reads comment number 57 under Chris Crocker’s emotive “Leave Britney Alone!” YouTube clip. If nothing else, you’ve got to give the writer credit for fastidiousness. “Feces-eating”? How many hatemongers properly hyphenate? Usually their syntax resembles that of commenter number 83: “You fucking queer ass, go stick a dick up ur ass,” or number 12,064: “You truly a retarded dick sucking mindless sheep. get aids and die!” Then there’s the particularly miffed number 182,720: “ALL you fucking fags should be killed by terrorist! DIE FAGGOTS!!”

Crocker, the androgynous performance artist who last year parlayed his plea for Britney sympathy into 15 minutes of fame, clearly struck a nerve. Within days of its upload on September 10, “LEAVE BRITNEY ALONE!” was bumping Iraq coverage off ABC News’ website and spawning dozens of YouTube parodies. Crocker gave interviews from an undisclosed location, claiming he’d received death threats. Ten days after he posted the clip he reportedly signed a deal for his own reality TV show. His video has been gawked at over 15 million times.

But what truly set Crocker’s post apart from YouTube’s other surreal megahits was the viewer feedback it sparked. As of this writing it has generated over 209,000 comments—the second highest number for any single video in YouTube history—and many comments echo the antigay hostility quoted above. Tens of thousands have logged on solely to voice their opinions on exactly what horrific way Chris Crocker—and, by extension, all gay people—should die: AIDS, terrorism, bludgeoning, a bullet to the head.

You don’t need to hop the A train or stroll through Golden Gate Park to hear a crazy bigot ranting about sinners and Jesus these days. Just fire up Internet Explorer and peruse the comments sections on the country’s most popular websites, which are aflame with homophobic hate speech so descriptively violent they would shock the members of Fred Phelps’s Westboro Baptist Church. Reading through them, you begin to wonder whether this hatred is representative of America. Does the Internet’s cloak of anonymity reveal what straights would really like to say to our faces?

“It’s called John Gabriel’s Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory,” says Clay Shirky, a journalist and New York University adjunct professor who studies the social and economic effects of Internet technologies. The theory is based on this simple equation: Normal Person + Audience + Anonymity = Fuckwad.

“There’s a large crowd,” says Shirky, “and you can act out in front of it without paying any personal price to your reputation,” which creates conditions most likely to draw out the typical Internet user’s worst impulses. The Fuckwad theory is the modern-day equivalent of the dilemma described by the late ecologist Garrett Hardin in his 1968 essay “Tragedy of the Commons”: How do you manage a communal resource when everyone who uses it has an interest in sustaining it but also the opportunity and the incentive to abuse it?

William Sledd lives in Lexington, Ky., where, he says “it’s church, church, church, Wal-Mart, church.” Sledd hosts the web series Ask a Gay Man, which started out as a humble homemade YouTube project before being picked up by the Bravo network and given an online perch at OutZoneTV.com. With a title like that, naturally, Sledd’s posts are magnets for hateful comments. The feedback from his Halloween episode ran the gamut, from an evocative “Someone drop a piano on this fat ugly faggot” to a simple and succinct “I hate gays.”

Sledd says the antigay comments on his YouTube posts at first were few and far between, but once his show blew up, “I started getting lots of comments. It happened all at once, and it really bothered me. I was like, I’m just not going to make videos anymore.”

Reader Comments

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  • Name: Phil 101
    Date posted: 2008-09-24 6:09 PM
    Hometown: was a little town in North Dakota

    Comment:

    A reply to the comment left by GayManStanding posted on 2008-07-19 7:23 PM. I understand your concern, but realize that the people watching his video who comment on killing us would hate us even if he acted like you and me. That is why it is so important for us LGBT people to be open in our communities, no matter how hard (and don't think I am speaking without experience). The TV and the internet do not show real people . . . period. Many viewers forget this, I know, and it would be nice for a few, more-masculinized gay males to appear on our screens, but there is nothing wrong with feminine or flamboyant gay males either. Be yourself. Don't be afraid. If we stop waiting for the world to change and start changing it ourselves, life will get better at a much faster rate. With the utmost love, Phil


  • Name: Rosie
    Date posted: 2008-09-22 1:45 PM
    Hometown: Milton Keynes, UK

    Comment:

    I think its important that everyone gets treated the same, no matter what colour/race/sexuality you are. It doesn't matter whatsoever, and I feel that people when they don't understand something immediately decide to attack it instead of trying to understand who the people they are attacking are. It's like they are attacking the whole gay community in their comments not just Chris Crocker and William Sledd. And seeing gay people become successful makes that hate even worse y'know? It's not right.


  • Name: laksfd
    Date posted: 2008-09-10 8:17 PM
    Hometown: asdf

    Comment:

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  • Name: Walter Mondale
    Date posted: 2008-09-10 7:02 PM
    Hometown: Washington, D.C.

    Comment:

    A decent Youtube comment is like a fleck of gold in poop. Even comments like this post are fairly useless.


  • Name: safsd
    Date posted: 2008-08-18 4:20 AM
    Hometown: dsfasdfsdq

    Comment:

    what a gay article i hate gay people that act like chris crocker. if i were to meet a real girl who acted like that, i would hate her too. i have, however, met some gay people who act nothing like that. i dont have a problem with those kinds.


  • Name: John
    Date posted: 2008-08-07 10:54 AM
    Hometown: Branford

    Comment:

    We see all of these comments about how lgbt folk are sub-human. How they should be bludgeoned to death and what not. I suspect that the reason that people say such things online is because if they don't they might be called gay! Oh no! I'm fairly fortunate about the school that I go to, we have a whole week of school dedicated to workshops about the different minority groups, so I don't see too much racism in my school, but it still happens. When you hear some of the things that people say, you wonder who is really sub-human!


  • Name: Jillian
    Date posted: 2008-08-06 6:39 AM
    Hometown: Barcelona, Spain

    Comment:

    I agree. Completely with this article. Homophobia is lame, seriously. We're all people, why hate on your own kind? Just because they're 'different'. Homophobia is like racism but only like against homosexuals. Homophobia is equally as wrong as racism. This needed to be said. I am so glad you guys put this up. Chris Crocker talks about the real things that people need to actually focus on instead of the usual 'she's so fat' gossips. I am not gay, and I am not saying that there is anything wrong with it. But seriously people, wake up. When will you all start becoming human?! That irks me.


  • Name: Tomi
    Date posted: 2008-08-04 5:27 AM
    Hometown: no hometown

    Comment:

    I am so tired of seeing hate in any forum. Period.


  • Name: C.I.
    Date posted: 2008-07-25 5:31 AM
    Hometown: Hawaii

    Comment:

    I agree fully with E.M. Majority of these people who are 'hatin'' on Chris and throw out obscene comments are TROLLS. Meaning they are doing it for either the 'lulz', the attention, or both. They feed off of having people reply back to them via comment/PM/video saying to stop flaming and insulting them. They enjoy making fun of youtubers and watching them reply back, showing that they are hurt by it. And sorry to say, but this article just adds fuel to the fire. This is what trolls want. Attention. And you are giving it to them. What these trolls and flamers are saying is wrong, but don't give them the attention by pointing it out to more people. It really is not helping the situation at all.


  • Name: Nikole
    Date posted: 2008-07-21 8:59 PM
    Hometown: New London, CT

    Comment:

    I definitely agree with this article, but what I don't understand is why a lot of the hate goes on with homosexual males, speaking as a bisexual female, I hardly ever get bashed. The only times I do are when I'm in sports or whatever. People don't think they can be safe running around in shorts and getting sweaty with me because I'm bisexual, but this is completely wrong. Just because i'm bisexual does not mean I am a pervert. Not every straight girl is attracted to every straight guy, the same with gays. I don't understand why people think that others who are different than them are two-dimensional.


  • Name: GayManStanding
    Date posted: 2008-07-19 7:23 PM
    Hometown: Jacksonville

    Comment:

    Chris Crocker took an enormous chance on posting his feelings on YouTube. I'm glad he has an outlet for his problems, but one thing does worry me. His eccentric behavior and loud demeanor may cause straight people to stereotype his behavior as the way all homosexual men act. Most of the homosexual men I know have never acted that way, and I feel his actions could affect the gay population negatively.


  • Name: Fiona
    Date posted: 2008-07-14 11:57 AM
    Hometown: Lincolnshire, England

    Comment:

    I think this article is absolutley right. Who cares if anyone else is gay, to be honest, what does it have to do with anyone else what sexual orientation another human being is. If you have homosexual people and apparently, Chris Crocker, so much then stay away from gay people, and stay away from Chris Croker's youtube videos. Like the hate of homosexual people, I see no need for people to really care about wether they agree with what Chris Crocker says or not, because at the end of the day it is just his opinion. Anyway, I really see no need for people to hate 'gay people, if you have such a huge problem with them, then stay away. I'm sure they probably hate you too but most of them will have the decency to be civil to you, because they're not pathetic excuses for human beings, which most of the people that post hate are.


  • Name: stopthehate15
    Date posted: 2008-07-04 1:58 AM
    Hometown: augusta

    Comment:

    ok i thought this was a great article. i'm tired of people acting like gays don't have feelings and aren't people too just because they like a person of the same sex. and second off...God never said he didn't like gays...so everyone should drop the Jesus/God hating gays thing...it may be in there tht you aren't supposed to but there isn't anything that said "I the lord and savior hate gays"...until Jesus comes down and tells everyone he hates gays then you can run around with picket signs sayin mean things about them...


  • Name: KayDior
    Date posted: 2008-06-24 6:32 PM
    Hometown: Atlanta

    Comment:

    who had the fckin time 2 criticise every fckinq move somebody makes. instead of beinq a good writer or human beinq for that fact. u waise ur time and everybody else who adores him. what you wrote is pointless & just rude. if u dont like him oh well. y hate when u can do something useful with ur life. like umm hey findinq sumthinq else 2 write about. i think chris crocker is who he wants 2 b. we have the freedom of speech for a purpose. if he wants 2 gay let him b fckin gay. no body yells at you for liking females. u sat there and watchd his video like every other gayhater like u didnt already kno he was gay. if u knew wat is ur fcking point of watching something you dont like. its like television u can chanqe the channel [video] or just fckin turn it off. um hello dnt b dumb or dimwhitted. && by the way hes a grown ass man & im assuminq u r 2. qet the fck over it and find something else 2 write about.


  • Name: E.M.
    Date posted: 2008-06-24 9:52 AM
    Hometown: Chicago

    Comment:

    People don't hate Chris Crocker because he's gay, they hate him because he's obnoxious and he gives a bad name to gay people. Maybe he should stop overexaggerating, because gay people do NOT act like that. He just sends across the wrong message about gays. Maybe he should use his fame for something other than making videos to show how many views he can get just by blinking.


  • Name: Loan
    Date posted: 2008-06-19 10:20 PM
    Hometown: Charlotte

    Comment:

    Wonderful article. First of all, gay people should not be hated via the internet or anywhere. We should really be concerned for Gay people. Gay people are human. There are straight people and there are gay people. We are living in the 21st century and yet we still have homphobes, thats completely crazy.We as a nation has been able to able lots of things already, but there is still one issue we can't get pass.We must learn that every one is human and they should not be sent hate mail or threats because of their sexual orientation.Its completely obscurd, fact thet facts America, ten years from now more people will be gay in public, and if by then the government is still trying to control their citizens based on thteir orientation I just wouldn't know what to do. And this isn't a joke, seriously speaking leave Chris Crocker and all other gay,lesbian,bisexual people alone. Thank You


  • Name: Dara
    Date posted: 2008-06-07 12:15 AM
    Hometown: Forest Hills

    Comment:

    I agree with this article, it is scary and ridiculous how out of hand comments can get online, the whole anonymous thing really allow people to say nasty things. Many people are quick to judge and hate gays. Above chauvinism, and racism, gays are the most prejudiced community. I have little tolerance for those who hate gays because it shows how little tolerance we have for difference. Maybe if we refocused our attention from hating gays (who haven't harmed anyone in any way) to real issues i.e. health care, war on terror, the environment, maybe we can make some change in this world. Really, you don't just wake up one day and decide to be gay, to decide to live a life of being picked on, scrutinized, and made fun of. Its like hating on someone for being too tall or too short, its not something you can change. We are all human beings in the end. Its disgusting how we think its alright to wish death upon someone for something they cannot change.


  • Name: Mr. Fag
    Date posted: 2008-06-06 10:30 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    This article is gay


  • Name: amy
    Date posted: 2008-06-02 2:17 PM
    Hometown: houston

    Comment:

    brittany, i think you're taking skatexbox's comment too harshly. i'm bi, and many of my friends are gay, and i think that aiming for everyone to not be awkward around LGBT is asking too much. it's what they do about that awkwardness that's important. skatexbox seems to be the kind of person who knows LGBT are just normal people but can't help that he's a bit awkward around them, so he'll just leave them be. it isn't ideal, but i think it shouldn't make anyone jump at him because people like this are at least trying to accept the LGBT community. also, thanks to the advocate for bringing up an issue that actually matters.


  • Name: Brittany
    Date posted: 2008-05-30 11:54 PM
    Hometown: Saint Louis

    Comment:

    "i dont judge. to be honest i dont really like gays. i mean there okay and all but no offense to anyone who is gay or has a gay friend or anything, they are akward. please dont take this in the wrong way." How could someone NOT take this the wrong way? How are gay people "awkward"? Under what definition of "awkward" are you talking about? I have a feeling that what this person really means, whether or not they are conscious of it, is that THEY feel awkward around gay people. Although I appreciate Skakexbox's intention not to insult anyone, I think it should still be noted that this is a clear instance of the misunderstanding people have between their feelings and the qualities of others. There's nothing about gay people that incites "bad" feelings, like hate--it's peoples' own ignorance that causes them to feel that way.


  • Name: Skatexbox
    Date posted: 2008-05-28 2:26 PM
    Hometown: McHenry

    Comment:

    i dont judge. to be honest i dont really like gays. i mean there okay and all but no offense to anyone who is gay or has a gay friend or anything, they are akward. please dont take this in the wrong way.


  • Name: Chelsea
    Date posted: 2008-05-12 5:28 PM
    Hometown: Pittsburg

    Comment:

    I think this article is fantastic! Lots of girls . and guys, have gay best friends. And they should NOT have to put up with these insults! ♥


  • Name: The Monkey
    Date posted: 2008-05-10 6:19 PM
    Hometown: Somewhere in the UK

    Comment:

    This is what really needs to be said, I mean honestly what wrong with being gay? I've got gay friends and they're some of the nicest people I ever met. Hating gays is like hating somebody that's a different race than you. They can't help it, just like they can't help who they love.


  • Name: m
    Date posted: 2008-05-09 1:20 PM
    Hometown: Pasadena

    Comment:

    very good article exactly what I think!


  • Name: Carrie
    Date posted: 2008-05-09 12:07 AM
    Hometown: Corner Brook, NFLD

    Comment:

    great article, definitly needed to be said.


  • Name: Nova-kun
    Date posted: 2008-05-05
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    Wonderful article.


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