CONTACTAbout UsCAREER OPPORTUNITIESADVERTISE WITH USPRIVACY POLICYPRIVACY PREFERENCESTERMS OF USELEGAL NOTICE
© 2025 Equal Entertainment LLC.
All Rights reserved
All Rights reserved
By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.
We need your help
Your support makes The Advocate's original LGBTQ+ reporting possible. Become a member today to help us continue this work.
Your support makes The Advocate's original LGBTQ+ reporting possible. Become a member today to help us continue this work.
President Barack Obama's big speech on Saturday awaits and what it will bring is anybody's guess.
A spokesperson for the White House said on Friday evening that the president "looks forward to speaking directly to the LGBT community about the steps his administration has taken thus far and the progress he hopes to achieve in the coming weeks and months."
That statement suggests Obama might deliver some fresh piece of information Saturday, but White House press secretary Robert Gibbs on Friday didn't presage anything new during Friday's briefing, saying only that he expected the president to talk about "a range of issues."
When I asked Gibbs if the president would highlight anything beyond the recently nominated openly gay ambassador and the nearly sealed hate-crimes legislation, Gibbs said he didn't want to "zoom past" the hate-crimes achievement.
"Hate-crimes protections are long overdue, in the president's opinion," Gibbs said. "He believes that their passage represents an important step, and looks forward to, when that legislation gets to his desk, signing it and making that the law of the land. I think that's certainly part of what he'll discuss on Saturday night."
Based on that response, I think it's safe to say that hate crimes will clearly be a major emphasis of the speech.
Then there was a tidbit in The Washington Post suggesting, "Obama will stress incremental advancements as evidence of progress."
The article sources "a Democratic source familiar with the White House's thinking," which, if true, suggests that the White House is trying to soft-pedal the speech.
The incremental concept brought a scathing rebuke from John Aravosis at Americablog, who wrote: "And now, to add insult to the injury, we face the subtle bigotry of 'incrementalism.' The White House has found a new buzzword -- a rhetorical silver bullet to get the president off the hook for yet another forgotten promise."
But I keep wondering, if the president can't offer anything new to the LGBT community in what sources say will be a 20-minute speech, why not just have family night at home with Michelle and the girls and eat pizza?
Sure, Obama might get some credit just for showing up at the dinner, but
my guess is that his inner circle would deem that far riskier than not showing
up. So why take the risk unless you believe you can pull something out of your magic hat?
Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach, who is in the process of being
discharged under the military's gay ban, called on the president to provide details
about ending the "don't ask, don't tell" policy.
"The president told me in June, 'We'll get this done,'" said Fehrenbach,
who spoke to Obama at the White House Stonewall celebration in June. "I hope to
hear from him this weekend about timing -- specifically when the president plans
on working with Congress to reverse the law."
Fehrenbach's call to action was joined this week by Congressman Alcee Hastings of Florida, who also pressed Obama for a repeal timeline. "Congress has yet to receive indication from the Executive that it is ready to proceed with a repeal process that requires leadership on all fronts," read a letter Hastings sent to the president.
And then there was Congressman Joe Sestak of Pennsylvania, a former Navy officer, who wrote, "I cannot imagine denying equal rights to anyone I served with. How can anyone say, we fought and served together, we depended on one another, we risked our lives for this country, but back home you shouldn't enjoy the rights that you defended?"
Setting out a path to overturning the gay ban on Saturday would certainly be noteworthy, but earlier this week, Gibbs's reaction to questioning about a Senate sponsor for repeal or a timeline led me to believe that the policy hadn't been a hot topic of conversation recently at the White House.
Longtime activist David Mixner looked outside the Beltway
and said he would be "thrilled" if the president took a stance on the upcoming
referendum on Maine's same-sex marriage law. But based on Washington buzz, the
CBO might score those odds at slim to none.
So what's left and will it be enough for LGBT activists? As a political insider said to me, "It's easy to dress up presidential remarks." And the backdrop for this speech is that Obama's words will be the first he delivers as a Nobel laureate.
"I will accept this award as a call to action, a call to all nations to confront the common challenges of the 21st century," Obama said of his unexpected honor Friday.
Certainly differing degrees of homophobia around the world qualify as a "common challenge," continuing to mock and ravage the promise of peace for people who love outside the boundaries of common acceptance.
Saturday night offers the new Nobel Peace Prize winner a perfect opportunity to send a message to the world that human rights are not simply tolerated -- but elevated -- right here at home.
From our Sponsors
Most Popular
Bizarre Epstein files reference to Trump, Putin, and oral sex with ‘Bubba’ draws scrutiny in Congress
November 14 2025 4:08 PM
True
Jeffrey Epstein’s brother says the ‘Bubba’ mentioned in Trump oral sex email is not Bill Clinton
November 16 2025 9:15 AM
True
Watch Now: Pride Today
Latest Stories
Women's Institute to ban transgender women after U.K. Supreme Court ruling
December 03 2025 4:10 PM
Grindr supports age verification bill introduced by two Republicans
December 03 2025 3:30 PM
Sarah Paulson & Holland Taylor's cutest moments on the Walk of Fame
December 03 2025 3:25 PM
Here's what Zohran Mamdani has promised to do for LGBTQ+ New Yorkers as mayor
December 03 2025 2:20 PM
Upstate New York Methodist minister comes out as transgender to congregation during Sunday service
December 03 2025 9:24 AM
Transgender Army vet running for state delegate in red Maryland district is all about showing up
December 03 2025 7:00 AM
7 times Pete Hegseth was the definition of toxic masculinity
December 02 2025 5:46 PM
Man pleads guilty to murder of gay University of Mississippi student Jimmie 'Jay' Lee
December 02 2025 2:32 PM




































































Charlie Kirk DID say stoning gay people was the 'perfect law' — and these other heinous quotes